Reflecting on #BlogFlash2013

So Terri Giuliano Long's flash blogging challenge for March 2013 is over—though some straggling posts may still be added by some participants. 21 posts each by many wonderful bloggers all over the world have been added for your reading pleasure out there in the "blogosphere".

For me, BlogFlash created openings into the wide and diverse worlds of the writing and blogging communities, affording me the opportunity to interact with and get to know many people I likely wouldn't have otherwise encountered.  I have added many new blogs (and twitter accounts) to my reading list, and I hope to be able to continue keeping up with all the posts to come.

Flash Blog: Success

We all measure successes by unique benchmarks that are affected by those set by our parents, mentors, teachers, friends, etc.  In the last 6 months, I have undertaken many new projects, and my benchmark lately has been the simplest measure of all: completion. Since November 1st I have: 

• Participated in NaNoWriMo for the first time, and successfully reached 50,000 words (November)
• Rediscovered, selected, and polished poetry for an electronic collection (early January)
• Finished the draft of my NaNoWriMo novel (February)
• Started this blog (February)
• Revised my first novel many times until it was fit for the eyes of first readers (Feb-March)
• Participated in, and, with this post, successfully completed BlogFlash2013!

Flash Blog: Education

A solid education is a crucial foundation for a quality life.  A well-rounded education teaches someone not facts but how to learn.  Nowadays, more and more private groups are beginning to tailor education to the specific learning styles of students rather than adopting a "one size fits all" approach, though it's unclear how effective these different approaches will ultimately be.

I'm incredibly grateful to my parents who worked ridiculous hours to provide all of their children with high-quality educations, both in school and with supplemental activities.  

Flash Blog: City

Perhaps because I grew up in an area of urban sprawl, I don't enjoy big cities – from the hectic pace to the dirty streets and skyscrapers, the entire ambience isn't for me.  The bustling nature of life in a city presses on me, overwhelming my senses.  The one major city I love is Paris, in which it is virtually impossible to get lost and which offers unlimited hidden treasures to be discovered. 

Cities began as the center of social life. To this day, large cities offer exposure to culture—through museums, theaters, music halls, and more – usually unparalleled by rural areas, which makes suburbia the perfect balance for me.

Flash Blog: Money

Nowadays, many people consider money an end in itself, working endlessly simply to increase their wealth.  Money should be, however, a means to an end – the key opening a door to a happy life, whether that means personal comfort and security or fabulous experiences while traveling the world.

Personally, I come from a background where a banana was, for years, a nearly unheard-of luxury.  I am careful with money, never spending on entertainment what needs to be spent on necessity.  Still, I remember to allow myself little luxuries when the opportunity does present itself – and I hope you do, too.

Flash Blog: Water

Considering the ubiquity of water in our world, this post shouldn't be as difficult to write as it currently seems...  

Like most of nature, water can be healing as easily as it can be destructive. Worlds of water encompass incomparable beauty, either enhancing or hiding it.  

One of the coolest aquariums I have visited was in Dalian China, where the majority of the visit happens in tunnels weaving underneath and within the worlds of aquatic life forms. Of course, the Monterey Bay Aquarium is no slouch either.

When's the last time you immersed yourself in an underwater world?

Flash Blog: Community

Being part of a community means being able to rely on the support and friendship of that community, but it also means accepting the rules of a community and shouldering the necessary responsibilities.  The wonders of the World Wide Web have linked us all into what is now called a global community, allowing us to 'meet' and communicate with people from all over the world, whom we may not have otherwise encountered.  Our interactions through BlogFlash2013 are a perfect example of this phenomenon.

Virtual communities allow people to change their own lives, those of others in the community, or those of strangers.  They allow grassroots efforts to spring forth with more vigor and be more effective.

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On that note, I'd like to share a nascent community writing project to which I am very excited to contribute when the time comes—and I hope you will consider doing the same!  Scripting Change aims to bring together writers for a zero-cost project that will raise and donate funds for deserving causes, while offering writers exposure for their work. 

Flash Blog: Friendship

A short excerpt from my novel, touching on today's prompt:

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"Sabella switched to her own car and headed home.  Occasionally, she glimpsed the purple highlights that now adorned her hair in her rear-view mirror, but there was nothing she could do about them now.  Theoretically, the color would rinse out in ten to fourteen days.  As always, in her own bizarrely effectual way, Gina had reminded her of her determinedly unfettered independence, and that she shouldn’t be defined by the assumptions of a virtual stranger, no matter how attractive and otherwise charming...Gina was inarguably one of a kind, and an incomparable friend."

Flash Blog: Home

I like this picture of home in the palm of our hands, since a home is something built as much as it is something found.  We may feel at home in a certain place, but that sensation without fail boils down to those people still inhabiting that space, those that built it for you or with you, or those memories a loved one who had once shared that home has left behind. We could as easily feel at home encircled in the arms of a beloved or surrounded by a closely bonded group of friends.  

And occasionally, home is the place that waits to welcome us once we find our way back.

Flash Blog: Darkness

It is easy to love the light, but darkness often deters affection.  And yet darkness reveals otherwise hidden yet spectacular realities that are equally worthy of love.

The undeniable beauty of a day in the forest is matched, if not surpassed, by that of the forest at night, which divulges secrets of its resident species—of those trees whose leaves shine in the moonlight, illuminating a darkened path, and those animals, predisposed to nocturnal lifestyles. 

Darkness in a person can be a marker of complexity, the result of triumph over trauma unintelligible to those touched only by light.   Complementary hints of darkness ultimately connect us with one another.

Flash Blog: Music

Music is an expressive form of communication unlike any other.  It transcends cultures, languages, and ages.  It seamlessly matches our moods, supporting us through difficult and delightful moments, while providing an outlet for turbulent or exultant emotions.  Music stimulates and enhances neurological function, aiding in the development of a child or in the productivity and retention of adult minds.  

And yet, music is one of the first types of education to be sacrificed in schools or by some professionally driven parents.  So to those who read this, please consider bringing music and musical education into your lives and the lives of your children, and supporting the musicians in your communities.

Flash Blog: Running

As important as fitness is, for both our physical and mental health, I hate running.  I have hated running since I was a child, forced to run laps by an arbitrary physical education requirement.  

Metaphorically speaking, though, I have been running for most of my life; many of us probably have.  In today's world, that relentlessly intense pace seems required for success of any kind.  It's no wonder that now extensive markets exist for anything that offers a moment of peace away from the race, whether that is a spa treatment, a yoga class, or simply a fun night out.

Flash Blog: Time

Every post before this, I wrote ahead of time.  Ironically, this one I am writing much later than normal, as time frequently flies away from us in the midst of the realities of life.  Tonight (last night? a few hours ago), a 77th birthday party ended in a trip to the ER. 

The ticking may seem slow, but time flows too fast.

Flash Blog: Spring

Spring is touted as a season representing rebirth, the reinvigoration of our surroundings and our lives.  As I write this, though, spring feels so very far away—completely out of reach.

I suppose it is therefore time to be inspired by the snowdrop—a resilient little flower which can bloom even when the ground is still covered in snow, bringing a touch of spring with it.

Flash Blog: Chocolate

Believe it or not, I have been to two Chocolate Museums.  The first was in Bruges – a tiny and adorable town.  This museum offers a glimpse into how chocolate is made, shows how it has been packaged in the past, and introduces a knowledgable cocoa bean to dispel myths. 

Flash Blog: Nature

Sometimes a character says it best, so for today's prompt, a short excerpt from an unfinished manuscript:

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"You would work better if you let nature in where you worked, like you do elsewhere in your home.  Sunlight streaming through the windows, perhaps a butterfly or two flitting past..." Alexandra's face lit up as she described it.  "Nature is pure inspiration.  How much closer can you get to ultimate motivation than the universe, the ideas that created it?"

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"All great ideas have come while someone was out in nature:  Newton understood gravity while outside, and wise prophets are still talked about as meeting people on a hill under a tree.  If you simply let yourself feel nature as you worked, you would probably suffer fewer 'writer's blocks' as you call them."

Flash Blog: Island

Without you, I float

In wishes for women's day

An island of grief

Flash Blog: Health

The obvious flip side of health is illness.  Illness and even disability are not always as apparent as many people would expect.  The people taking the elevator up one floor?  They're called lazy, which they may very well be.  But they could also be recovering from a leg injury, suffering from debilitating back pain, or simply having an extremely difficult day.

Instead of considering the alternative possibilities, people frequently assume the worst about others.  Instead, we should remember that not all illness is apparent to our eyes, nor should obvious illness be the only reason for our compassion.

Flash Blog: Books!

I love books.  They offer escapes, transporting readers into new and different worlds and providing abundant information that carries through generations.

While I understand the convenience factor of electronic readers, I nevertheless believe that the true experience of reading must involve a physical book, with pages that can be felt and flipped.  I also prefer hard-bound books, especially those bound with materials now used almost exclusively for special editions. 

Books should, I believe, offer a respite from our technology-filled lives.  So, while I do support the growing trend of electronic publishing, I also affirm that print publishing should not be swept aside and left behind. 

Flash Blog: Innocence

As a romance writer, I deal with a very different kind of innocence than this #BlogFlash2013 image portrays. 

Sexual innocence is an especially complex topic nowadays.  Mixed messages are sent to and about women – a girl who has sex is promiscuous or adventurous; one who doesn't is prudish or virtuous.  

Media addressing this topic of abstaining from premarital sex frequently have the heroine "slip" – have sex – and then "re-virginize", which I find deplorable, as it teaches either that it is impossible to remain a virgin by choice regardless of one's convictions, or that, once one has sex, amends must be made.